Sam and I in better days. |
I’ve been meaning to blog all of July, hoping to get a post
up before the month ran out; then, life rolled in like a tsunami, sweeping away
intention. The only thing left was that night, Saturday, July twenty-sixth. Two
dogs, maybe four, attacked Sam, my beloved standard poodle. Dick, my husband
and I, had left Sam in the care of a dog sitter, a woman we knew. What we did
not know was that she would leave Sam and her four dogs gated in her living
room and leave on her bicycle to get ice cream. Her housemate found Sam lying
in front of the gate, his breathing harsh and gurgled, his fur soaked with
blood. Sam survived, still survives with severe bite wounds to his neck,
impaired breathing which may require surgery to open his air ways, nerve injury
to his right eye. He can’t blink. May never blink.
That Saturday night, the veterinarian gave Sam a fifty-fifty
chance. It was two in the morning when Dick and I arrived at the hospital. Sam lay
on his side, in an oxygen cubicle, his neck so swollen, he looked like he was
wearing a ruffled Elizabethan collar. He smelled foul—like blood and rotten
flesh. His fur has been shaved, revealing severe bite wounds to his neck, one
about four inches long and two inches wide—and so deep. His white skin was the
color of strawberries. An IV dripped into his left front paw, administering
fluids, morphine and antibiotics. I held my hand to his nose. Sam licked my
fingers.
For days my sadness was visceral, sapping my energy and my
strength. I couldn’t read. Couldn’t write. Couldn’t think. I could empty the
dishwasher, walk in the rain. This was grief. For Sam’s suffering. For his
wounds. I blamed myself. I shouldn’t have left him with a woman who owned four
dogs. Shouldn’t have made Sam the outsider. Wasn’t that what I wrote about, the
outsider? But the woman knew Sam. Sam knew her. And he’d spent time with her dogs.
But never without the woman present. She was distraught. So sorry. She would
pay. She didn’t care how much. She wanted Sam to live. She didn’t know what
she’d do if Sam died. Early, in his care, I set limits. No resuscitation. No
breathing tubes. If Sam was going to survive, he’d need to pull through on his
own. Sam has a big heart, a steady slow determination.
After five days, I brought him home, that large wound still
open and draining, smaller wounds open and draining, too. I changed his
dressing, fed him pills, antibiotics, painkillers, an appetite stimulant, each
wrapped in brie. Brie is soft and smelly. Sam loves smelly. I sat on the floor
applying warm compresses to his wounds. Sam leaned back into my hand, the hand
that used to bandage a son’s skinned, then lift a lock of sweaty hair from a
forehead. With touch, Sam’s breathing eased.
This morning, Sam lies on his bed in my study. This is our
routine; Sam rests in my study as I write. And I’m beginning to write, first
this blog, then perhaps, tomorrow, I’ll return to the work I left before the
night of Sam’s attack, my book of essays about Jews, war and Vichy France. Sam has
patches of dead skin that may transform into open wounds. Weeks will tell the
extent of injury to his trachea. It will be months before we know if those
nerves in his face will regenerate. I stoop down to scratch, lightly, on his
head. He doesn’t move. He is content, hardly laboring as he breathes. Perhaps, no surgery. I turn
back to my desk. Together and slowly, Sam and I re-enter our lives.
I'm so sorry. I hope Sam eventually recovers fully.
ReplyDeletexxx Huge Hugs xxx