In
the fall when I decided to become a Bat Mitzvah, I also committed to blogging
about my journey. I’d envisioned writing a number of short pieces, perhaps once
a week. that I would write more
regularly. Easy, I’d thought. That’s not the way things turned out. I’ve been
stalled. Family problems have intruded, certain of my sons feeling as if I’ve
violated their privacy. I’ve been asked to change names. Perhaps, choose
initials. But naming is an essence. I’ve had a hard time adjusting to what I
must do. In addition, without regular classes or assignments, I’ve been
focusing on other work, a series of essays about Jews in southwest France
during WWII. And just this week, my beloved standard poodle, Lucy, died. She
was failing, but her death came suddenly. Unexpectedly. And in recent months, I’ve
been shadowed by doubt. Why am I doing
this? Is my journey relevant? And for whom? I’ve proposed projects that
involve my grand children, my children, most of whom—in my opinion—find my
journey either a burden or unnecessary. “Why now?” one son has asked.
I think
of Rabbi Hillel. “If I am not for myself, then who will be for me? And if I am only for myself, then what am I? And
if not now, when?”
As
Rabbi Lev has said my Bat Mitzvah
will be my Shehecheyanu moment. The Shehecheyanu, that most beautiful prayer
I recite often when I hike in the mountains, a prayer people recite at the
arrival of any long awaited occasion. Holidays come once a year, as does the
first hike in the spring. Life cycle events come less often. Some of us get our
Shehecheyanu moments at births, others at weddings. Some never get those
blessed moments. Mine will come in the fall, a stopping point along my life’s
journey. In the Shehecheyanu, we give
thanks to the universe—some would say God—for sustaining us and allowing us to
reach this moment, whatever that moment is.
And
so, I’m back on my journey, and along the way, I will try to be more faithful to
this blog. And I have a new date. Did I tell you? September 28, 2013. Sue
Horowitz, musician, educator, friend is my guide.
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